Beginner’s Luck

Sometimes a dream discussion is itself enough fuel to launch one into the lucid-dream mindset.

Case in point: A few months ago I was sharing dreams with a friend when we decided that we would try to cultivate a lucid-dream scenario that night. We set our intention to meet at a landmark that we had both visited. She had never lucid dreamed–that she could recall–but that night became aware and decided to fly. Something prevented her from getting to our predesignated locale, but she had at least remembered to try for it.

She wrote me pages of details the next day. I, on the other hand, just had a paragraph of imagery to jot down.

Weeks later I’m talking to another friend about LDing, and days after our discussion he calls me up at work to rave about his first-ever flying, lucid dream. In fact, he claims he has never had a lucid dream before this.

So I was jealous of these two in a dream geek sort of way, but overjoyed to listen to their enthusiasm, the pleasure-possibilities of the awakened dream mind.

Being present with our dreaming is itself a kind of mindfulness. Just talking about this seems to cultivate the right mindset. I’m lucky to hear these stories from those I love. I’m reminded of a passage from Carl Jung’s autobiography Memories, Dreams, Reflections, in which he speaks with a patient who claimed to have never dreamed.

Jung’s response: Tonight you will.

(He did.)

Dream surfing with the WILD

The WILD technique, or wake-initiated lucid dreaming, is a powerful method for attaining dream lucidity and is a unique vehicle in that one transitions from waking state to dream state by vigilantly yet calmly coaxing the body to sleep while maintaining mindfulness. Just the other night my friend reported to me that she had attained lucidity after trying this for the first time. I also attained lucidity on my first try with this technique–though apparently some LD practitioners find the WILD difficult to pull off. Nevertheless, here’s the primary tip you’ll need to know:

Count down: “one, I am dreaming; two, I am dreaming … ” and so on. Depending on your state of mind, you may well begin slipping into hypnagogic hallucinations, the beginnings of dream state. Stay vigilant at this point, as it’s easy to drift off. Continue to count down, letting your body relax and your mind remain alert. The analogy that comes to mind is surfing: let the wave catch you, but maintain the balance so you don’t wipe out into the unconscious. Stay between the waking/dreaming states and you may well find yourself in a dream and counting down “67, I am dreaming … Oh, I actually am in a dream!” Now, harm none and do as ye will!

Think You’re Dreaming? Check Your Hands

In the context of lucid dreaming, a reality check is a technique used to determine if one is dreaming. Lucid dreamers (LDers) practice these checks during waking state. A few common reality checks include reading the same text twice (in a dream, the text will shift or warp), reading a digital clock or watch (like text, the digits will not be stable), and attempting to fly (gravity is a shoddy little theory in the REM world).

Practiced LDers often have a regiment of performing these reality checks throughout the day. Strong anecdotal evidence, mine included, suggests that this habit carries over into the dream state, that the dreamer performs such checks during REM. Flick the lights on and off and find that the lights are “stuck” on? Check. Well then, time to fly, explore Io, and consult the oracle at Delphi in a matter of minutes!

After following some of the advice in Stephen LaBerge’s Exploring the World of Lucid Dreaming, I have been able to attain lucidity four times over the past few weeks, but my reality checks have been nothing like what I’ve practiced during the day (text checks usually). With the exception of my last LD–in which I noticed that the words on my computer screen were gibberish even though I was typing correctly–my reality checks have been the simple act of looking at my hands.

When I looked down at my hands, I noticed something askew: in dream 1, there was a psychedelic glow to them; in dream 2, a dopamine-rush aura glowed around them; in dream 3, all but my left-hand thumb was invisible. Some people describe that their hands are disproportionate. One thing is certain: there’s usually something off about them (in my case, several digits off). The nice thing about this reality check is that you need only your traditional ‘body image’ to see if you’re dreaming.

Reality checks all share one similar theme: mindfulness. Just as a meditator stops to observe the frenetic goings-on of the mind, so too does the LDer take an inventory of his/her assumptions about reality. Sometimes we are fooled by a test, or something doesn’t quite work. Trying to fly is an excellent second test. If you can hold your jump for longer than Michael Jordan, it’s time to explore your dreams.

Things Fall Apart: Deviant Devices in Dreams

Hello, fellow oneironauts!

If you’re reading this blog, you probably have an interest in lucid dreaming (dreaming in which you become aware that you’re dreaming), and you likely didn’t need those two links. So, you probably also know that devices don’t work very well in dreams; they either break down or do some strange stuff. One standard reality check is to test a light switch, which will likely fail in a dream. Of course, you have to be in the habit of testing devices in waking state in order to remember to test during dream consciousness. Most important, to hone your lucidity skills you should be cultivating mindfulness during waking state (meditation helps), and maintaining the habit of asking yourself whether you are dreaming. Cell phone appointment reminders are my mindful method.

A case in point about device failure in dreams: During my final REM cycle this morning, I was bowling and hit the reset button. The pins that came down were randomly ordered, and sometimes even mannequin legs replaced the pins! If that weren’t bizarre enough, on a couple of resets World War II dioramas were built at the end of the bowling lane. Instead of questioning this wacked-out reality, I was infuriated with the owner, who had no idea how to fix the problem. (Of course he didn’t: He was part of my own machinations to dupe myself. Ah, what a rich conspiracy the mind is!)

Some lucid dreamers might be upset with themselves for failing to perceive a dream sign that’s right under their nose. As a newbie LDer, I find it fascinating how my mind played along with the beautiful breakdown of the bowling pin setting machine. I consider it progress in my dream-life studies that I should remember and record this potent dream sign. It tells me that lucidity is near, and just one phrase away: the simple, skeptical question, “Am I dreaming?”

10 Reasons to Lucid Dream

1. Life is too short. You spend nearly one-third of your life asleep, so why sleepwalk through your sleep when you could be playing cello at Carnegie Hall–and flying there at will?

2. Pick up a good habit. Lucid dreaming techniques require mindfulness, and the diligence of meditation. In fact, meditation can be quite useful as a relaxation technique for preparing for lucid dreaming.

3. Overcome your fear of heights. Or snakes. Or the minotaur chasing you through a labyrinth. You can confront and overcome any phobia–perhaps even post-traumatic stress–if you wake up in a dream and realize you have the power to transform your dream world. With a little practice, your worst nightmare could be dissolved, or even become a lovely rendezvous.

4. Sex. Lucid dream sex is the main motivation people try lucid dreaming. While it may not appear to be the most high-minded goal, exploring wild fantasies–without repercussions–is no doubt an exhilarating, and potentially edifying, experience. Here’s a thoughtful article on erotic dreaming by a blogger far more articulate than myself.

5. Change your mood. Anecdotes from lucid dreamers tell of dream emotions carrying into waking life. We’ve all had the experience of waking from a plausible nightmare and feeling in a funk for the rest of the day, if not for several days. Consider how lucid-dreaming bliss could carry you through daily work!

6. Become a Tibetan dream yogi. Although Dr. Stephen LaBerge was one of the first scientists to meticulously outline the techniques of lucid dreaming (only a couple decades ago), lucid dreaming has been around since ancient times. Your LD adventures aren’t a kooky new-age invention, they’re part of a long tradition of psychological exploration. Read up!

7. Be your own therapist. A good therapist is a true treasure, but the best of the best will tell you that you have to do your homework. By awakening during and sometimes willing your dreams, you can empower yourself and overcome the greatest anxieties.

8. Flying. This one should probably be higher up on the list. Flying is one of the most sought-after and memorable experiences by lucid dreamers. Whether you soar over the Pacific or drop by the Cayman Islands, you’re bound to be positively charged after a healthy Superman/Superwoman flying dream.

9. Heal your body. More studies on the topic of physical healing through lucid dreaming are needed, but anecdotal evidence of this kind of healing abounds. According to the Lucidity Institute, some “potential healing applications of lucid dreaming include … more rapid recovery from injury or disease through the use of lucid dream imagery, and an increased sense of freedom for anyone who feels limited by disability or circumstance.”

10. Tap your creativity. Inhibitions are the waking-life boundary bumpers that keep us in our proper social role and behavior. But the creative mind is uninhibited. When we strip away those inhibitions during lucid dreaming, our basic explorative mind can finally dance—and without a cocktail.

Wisdom from Stephen LaBerge

“Not all lucid dreams are useful but they all have a sense of wonder about them. If you must sleep through a third of your life, why should you sleep through your dreams, too?”

Calling all dreamers, especially the lucid ones

I find it fascinating how I accept the “dream logic” of a dream. One moment I’m rushing to a high school math class (at my current age), the next I’m trying to seduce Sylvia Plath by reciting her lines of her own poetry that she has yet to write. While the waking mind might not make such absurd leaps, it does share a common misperception with “dream logic”: The mind gets caught up in appearances, taking them as nightmarishly solid or gloriously true. Lucid dreaming can be a powerful tool to break through appearances and to empower oneself, to transform fears into adventures.

Whether asleep or awake, many of us sleepwalk through life. (I can’t help but think of Tibetan dream yoga here.) But we also have those “satori” glimpses, those awakened moments, which we can also reach during REM sleep. I had a lucid dream ten years ago that dissolved a deep phobia overnight. That dream is the impetus for starting this blog, a forum for dream sharing.

So, please, share a dream that had a significant effect on your life. Share it in a comment here, or e-mail me with queries or your dream tales. I am also conducting interviews in Southern California. Please see the About section of this page for further details.

Dreams can bring healing. They can influence waking-life creativity–and there’s plenty of proof on this point, from inventions and discoveries to music. Through dreams, many of them lucid, countless people have overcome great fears. And no doubt, they can be richly symbolic journeys, too.

Oh, and if you’re looking for a resource on dreaming and the techniques of dreaming lucid, you need to remember just one name: Dr. Stephen LaBerge. Check out his books, and check out Lucidity Institute.

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